Daily Meditation

Power Isn’t Control At All-Daily Meditation March 9, 2023

Today’s quotation:

Power isn’t control at all–power is strength and giving that strength to others.  A leader isn’t someone who forces others to make him stronger; a leader is someone willing to give his or her strength to others so that they may have the strength to stand on their own.-Beth Revis

Today’s Meditation:

Some of the concepts we’ve learned about as we’ve lived our lives get a bit warped by some people.  Power is one of those concepts–we very often consider it something that it’s not.  Often we confuse influence with power–the simple fact that someone has influence over me, such as a boss, teacher, or official, does not mean that the person has power over me, and I don’t need to give them that power.

If I want to lead, my job isn’t to have power over others; instead, it’s to help them to develop into the people they were meant to be.  Yes, there are goals and necessary outcomes to consider. Sometimes good leaders need to be somewhat harsh with the people they lead (some of my students need more brutal pushes than others, for example). Still, as long as I keep in mind that as a leader, my goal is to empower my students and not to make myself feel better, I can reasonably safely depend on my motivation to help me to lead effectively and compassionately.

We say our boss has power over us because he or she can fire or punish us.  But that’s simply an influence I give to my boss by continuing to work at the same place.  Even if my boss fires me, that’s not power over me–that’s influence over a tiny aspect of my life.  And the person I am doesn’t change if I get fired; only some of my circumstances change, and what I do with those changes is entirely up to me.

As leaders of our children, we have the power to create positive environments in which our children can thrive and negative ones that can hurt them.  As friends and colleagues, we can be supportive, encouraging influences, or damaging discouraging ones.  Our power lies not over the other people in our lives but in what we do with our lives.

Take your power, own it, love it, and use it wisely.  That’s the best thing you can do for the other people in your life, and it will be an outstanding contribution to our world.

Questions to consider:

Why do so many people seek “power” over others?

How might you use your power in positive ways?

How do you define “power”?

For further thought:

Part of the mythology they’ve been teaching you is that you have no power.  Power is not brute force and money; power is in your spirit.  Power is in your soul.  It is what your ancestors, your old people gave you.  Power is in the earth and your relationship to the earth.-Winona LaDuke

Power Isn't Control

BeckyWillis

BeckyWillis is a "glass is half full" type of person, so she decided that she would share that with others. After going on 15 years in the blogosphere she decided it was time to make a change and in doing so help uplift others. Her husband is her biggest cheerleader; you can visit his site at https://lifeasrog.com.

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