Daily Meditation

Pure Love Has No Conditions-Daily Meditation July 11, 2023

Today’s quotation:

Pure love has no conditions or boundaries.  Love does not restrain itself or hold back.  Love gives all the time and doesn’t ask for anything in return.  Love is a continuous flow without any limits.  And all of this is inside you.-Rhonda Byrne.


Today’s Meditation:

Rachel Remen says there’s no such thing as unconditional love–that love by its very nature is unconditional, and if there are conditions involved, it’s not love at all but something else.  I’ve come to agree with her.  We spend a lot of time categorizing love– romantic, brotherly, platonic- but the truth is simply that love is love. We can have the same love for our neighbor that we have for our spouse and children and parents because love is love, and we should love all people equally and without condition.

I love my wife, but I love the children that I teach just as much.  The relationship that I have is, of course, very different than the relationships I have with children, but the love is the same.  My wife and I share many things with no one else, but I also share things with my students that I don’t share with my wife–I don’t give her homework, for example.  But all I do in all of my relationships is to give all I can to help the other grow and learn in her or his ways, to become themselves.

If I love you, all that matters to me is your well-being.  It’s not up to me to mold or shape you, to do what I can to help you be well.  I need to support and encourage my students, but I also need to challenge and set limits for them.  If I love them, I try to determine their needs and do what I can to meet them in my relationship.  When we narrowly define love, we also limit the good we can do for those we love.

Love isn’t something that “happens” to us.  We have moments of great attraction, but that’s not what love is.  Love is something that we do–something that we work at, that we practice, that we make efforts to achieve.  And the more we love, the easier it becomes.  And the more the other people in our lives feel the benefit of our love.


Questions to consider:

Whom do you love?  Why?

How would you define love?  Does the love you share match your definition?

How much of what we do in the name of love is meant to try to get some return?


For further thought:

Love has nothing to do with what you expect to get–only what you expect to give–which is everything.  What you will receive in return varies.  But it has no connection with what you give.  You give because you love and cannot help giving.  If you are fortunate, you may be loved back.  That is delicious, but it does not necessarily happen.-Katharine Hepburn.


If you missed our last Daily Meditation, it is here.

BeckyWillis

BeckyWillis is a "glass is half full" type of person, so she decided that she would share that with others. After going on 15 years in the blogosphere she decided it was time to make a change and in doing so help uplift others. Her husband is her biggest cheerleader; you can visit his site at https://lifeasrog.com.

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