Standing Up for Ourselves with Shared Heart 11.16
Standing Up for Ourselves on 11.16.25
Dear Shared Heart Friends,
Here is a short video with a message from Joyce and Barry about standing up for ourselves, and a song from Barry. Please subscribe to our YouTube channel if you like the video.
Joyce and Barry Vissell November 16, 2025
Welcome to our home. My flowers outside are pretty much gone, but this beautiful Christmas cactus right in our living room is is giving such a beautiful display of light. So, we thought we’d start it this way.
So on this beautiful November day, I thought I would share a story about standing up for ourselves, really honoring who we are and how important that is. So last week we shared a story about the power of saying no and it and that story was about Pier Valiant Khan, one of our great teachers who was Sufi master.
So this story is in the same place in the French Alp shaman and we had spent the whole summer there. We were 27 years old’s and Barry had you know we’d been married. Barry finished medical school, his residency and I finished graduate school and we’re out not knowing what we were going to do with our lives feeling lost actually.
So Pierat, must have sensed this and he, the first time he met us after greeting us, you know, I want you to do workshops in this Sufi camp. There were maybe 150 young people mostly in their 20s and 30s and they were from all over Europe and the United States. (You can pick this up on their video at spot 1:49).
“This is an amazing book by two amazing humans. I was brought to tears many times. I don’t want you to miss a word of this outstanding book.”—Susan Campbell, PhD, author of Getting Real Please order here: A Couple of Miracles We love hearing from you. Please let us know if you enjoyed it. Please share this email with your friends, if you feel inspired. May these little videos bless and inspire all of you: Many blessings, Barry and Joyce |

